“We are all in this together”
It’s a comment we have heard often, but I’ve come to the point of wincing now when I hear it. Every person’s experience is not identical. Although we might currently be in the same place, our experience of it varies greatly. The things we have on our plate differ, and the stressors we face unique. A colleague captured this when she said to me recently:
“We may be in the same storm… but we’re not in the same boat.”
No truer words were spoken.
Think back over the last seven months. There was no way we could have anticipated how many levels of stress we were to face or how long the current stressors would have lasted. I invite you to consider the following questions:
What are some of the things you are most proud of regarding how you have managed?
It’s important to take a moment to acknowledge the things you have managed well.
Now that you have some learning behind you, what are some things you’d like to tweak in order to ensure you stay healthy over the next six months?
Facing tough times can give us a whole new understanding of the things that are important to us.
What are some of the things you have really come to appreciate?
Looking ahead to six months from now, what are some of the things you would like to be able to say about yourself?
Now is a great time to do some tweaking. Our Healthy Living program, starting in November, focusses attention on identifying values that are important to us. Together we will review whether the life we are living reflects the life we want. We’ll learn simple strategies for making healthy changes.
Warm regards,
Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong
