Landing Strong: Finding our Rhythm

Landing Strong: Finding our Rhythm

 

Landing Strong: Finding our Rhythm

The past few days have been incredible. We’ve seen a wide array of animals with each game drive offering something new and unforgettable.

Two favorites from today: a pride of lions resting together, calm and powerful, and a troupe of baboon babies playing mischievously, tumbling over one another without a care. Strength and joy, side by side.

We’re adjusting to the slower, steady rhythm of African time. Nothing is rushed. There’s space to pause, to notice, to simply be.

The rains have changed the landscape. The dusty red soil I expected has been replaced by lush green earth, full of life and renewal.

Krista, you are missed. We know you had to step away last minute because of a medical emergency, but please know we carry you with us in every moment.

I am grateful to be here, and proud to be sharing it with both students and members of our Landing Strong community (who incidentally have been amazing).

Please know that we carry all members of the extended Landing Strong community with us in our hearts as we forge on this wonderful adventure together.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Uncertainty & Courage

Uncertainty & Courage

 

Uncertainty & Courage

Tomorrow, we embark on our mission to Tanzania, Africa.

The bags are packed. The training is done. And somewhere between excitement and uncertainty, there’s a quiet question: Am I ready?

Every meaningful journey begins this way.

As our team prepares to leave for Tanzania, I see it…anticipation, pride, and yes, trepidation. Challenge and change have a way of stirring old doubts. Mountains do that. So does stepping into unfamiliar communities with open hands and open hearts.

But courage is not the absence of uncertainty. It is choosing to move forward despite potential fears.

This trip is about answering an internal call; to connect, to serve, to build, and to climb.

The most transformative moments in life begin with the decision to challenge ourselves.

We are excited to share updates on our Facebook and Instagram Landing Strong pages. Please join us on this journey. (Find us on Facebook here and Instagram).

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Looking Deeper: The Doorway to Recovery

Looking Deeper: The Doorway to Recovery

 

Looking Deeper: The Doorway to Recovery

Today, I sat across from a Veteran who is struggling.  Not because he lacks strength, but because he doesn’t yet have the level of support he needs to truly recover. 

In my work, assessments are often described in clinical terms: symptoms, timelines, diagnoses, treatment plans. But what I experienced today was something much more human. I had the privilege of hearing this Veteran’s life story.  And in doing so, I was able to understand the impact of his military experiences within the context of his larger life. Pieces that once seemed disconnected; reactions, patterns, emotions that felt confusing even to him, suddenly began to make sense. 

It is never helpful to compare the “size” of our injury to the people standing around us, as though pain can be measured by what is visible. The truth is, only we can truly know the meaning of what happened to us, because only we know our full story. 

And often, what seems to “not make sense” starts to make sense when we allow ourselves to look more closely, and deeply, with compassion instead of judgment. That process can be hard. It can feel exposing. It can stir grief, anger, and memories we’ve spent years trying to outrun. 

But it is also a doorway. 

When we begin to understand the “why” beneath our responses, we are no longer trapped in them. We become able to meet ourselves with clarity, and from that place, recovery becomes possible; not as a quick fix, but as a steady return to health, connection, and hope.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Closed Doors, Open Hearts

Closed Doors, Open Hearts

 

Closed Doors, Open Hearts

There are moments when the world feels too loud, too close. When the news carries activating stories, something inside us tightens. We want connection, desperately. And at the same time, we want distance. Safety. Control.

Recently, in our Community Connections program, a new member joined for the very first time. That alone took courage. She didn’t say much at first, but when it came time to create, she painted a door mat covered in hearts. Inside were the words: “go away.”

Instead of stepping back, we leaned in, smiling.

That mat said what so many people feel but struggle to articulate. The longing to be held, understood, and seen, paired with the fear that letting anyone too close could hurt, overwhelm, or undo us. Keeping people out feels safe. It’s familiar.

But safety, while protective, can also be isolating.

Letting people in is riskier. It asks us to sit with vulnerability, to trust that others can meet us with care rather than harm. It invites the possibility of healing.

That mat now sits as a quiet teacher. A reminder that ambivalence is not weakness. It’s honesty. And that showing up, even while wanting to push the world away, is an act of profound strength.

Connection doesn’t mean abandoning our boundaries. It means choosing, gently and on our own terms, to open a door just enough to let the light in.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Love, Service and New Beginnings

Love, Service and New Beginnings

 

Love, Service and New Beginnings

Some moments deserve more than a quick congratulation in the hallway. They deserve to be celebrated, out loud, together, as a community. 

This week at Landing Strong, we are honoured to share joyful news: two of our own, Terry Biles and Gillian Ring, were married. And what a privilege it is to witness love taking root so fully and so beautifully. 

As many of you know, Terry is a Veteran who served in Afghanistan. Like so many who have carried the weight of service, he has also carried the invisible impacts that can follow. Terry’s journey has not been simple, and it certainly hasn’t been linear; but it has been deeply human. He is a living, breathing example of what it means to keep showing up. To fight your way back into health. To rebuild a life that includes not only strength, but tenderness. Not only survival, but connection. 

At Landing Strong, we often speak about healing in terms of community, purpose, and belonging. Terry’s story reflects that truth. Despite the darkness he has faced, he has found his way back into family, community, and love…and now, into a new chapter alongside Gillian. 

Please join us in sending heartfelt congratulations and warm wishes to this beautiful couple. May their marriage be filled with laughter, resilience, partnership, and peace as they step forward into the next stage of their life journey together.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong