Last night as I was leaving the office, I was drawn to a surprising, uplifting sound coming from a nearby tree. Curious, I approached slowly, realizing that the tree was alive with movement and birdsong.  Hundreds, perhaps thousands, of starlings gathered together, their voices blending into a chorus that filled the evening air (listen here).

I stood for a long moment, mesmerized. How did they all know to gather here, in this one spot? Was it the guidance of a single leader, or something deeper—an instinctive wisdom, written into their very DNA? These birds are about to embark on their long journey south, facing the uncertainty and challenge of winter. Yet they do not go alone. They sing together, hang together, train together, and ultimately fly together.

There’s something profoundly reassuring in this idea. As humans, we too face seasons of hardship and transition. While our instincts may tell us to withdraw when life gets difficult, healing requires community. Like those birds, we are stronger when we connect; when we lend our voices to a shared song of support and understanding.

At Landing Strong, we believe that recovery isn’t a solitary flight. It’s something we do together; encouraging, guiding, and lifting one another as we move toward brighter days ahead.

Because sometimes, the surest way to face the winter is side by side.

Warmly,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

This week, I am reminded of the importance of community. During our Surviving to Thriving program, my colleague and fellow clinician, Charisma Grace, shared that she has been deeply mindful of her family in Jamaica. While her loved ones thankfully weathered the recent hurricane unscathed, they are profoundly affected by the devastation in their community and country. Even across the ocean here in Canada, Charisma feels the weight of her home country’s experience; a powerful reminder that our sense of belonging and care extends far beyond borders.

In moments like these, we are called to pull together, recognizing that true resilience depends on our ability to operate as a world community, not as isolated nations or individuals. When one community suffers, we all feel the ripple. When one rises, we are all lifted.

This message was beautifully echoed in a newsletter I received this week from Makers Studio in Windsor, Nov Scotia. Their work highlights the strength that grows from creativity, collaboration, and shared purpose; evidence that community begins at home, in the ways we show up for one another each day.

For healthy countries and a healthy planet, we must first build connected communities right where we live. Thank you for being part of ours. Thank you for noticing, asking, and caring about those around you.

Together, we stand strong.

Warmly,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

This week, I’m in Debert offering a five-day Veteran’s program. Each morning in the six am darkness, I lace up my boots, sling on my backpack, and head out for a practice hike. One local warned me to watch for coyotes. I laughed it off until the next morning, when the beam of my headlamp caught the fleeting form of a coyote skirting around the side of a building.

For a moment, I wondered if I should stop walking in the mornings. The thought came quickly, followed by another: how often does fear of the unknown stop us from moving forward?

It’s easy to let fear grow large in our imagination. Perhaps there are more coyotes out there. Perhaps they’re waiting just beyond the edge of the light. But courage isn’t the absence of fear, it’s moving forward, even when we feel it. So, I adjusted my pack, imagined an offensive stance, and kept going.

No encounters today. Truth be told, the coyote I saw yesterday looked more afraid of me than I was of it.

Tackling trauma can be a lot like meeting coyotes on a dark road. Our fears, real or imagined, can keep us locked away, isolated and alone. But when we walk together, shining light on what scares us, we find safety in connection and strength in numbers. Sometimes, just stepping forward is enough to remind us: we’re not alone in the dark.

Warmly,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

As I continue my trek out west, I’ve been intentionally carving out time for reflection and relaxation. There’s something deeply restorative about hiking through mountain trails, enjoying magnificent views with nothing connecting me to time except the amount of sunlight left in the day.  It is these moments that allow my thoughts to settle and drift.

Between hikes, I find myself drawn to local coffee shops. Each one tells a story about the community it serves. There’s an authenticity in these spaces; a warmth that comes not just from the coffee, but from the people gathered around it. I’ve come to believe that nothing captures the heart of a place quite like its café culture.

This photo was taken at Deadwood Junction in Greenwood, B.C., a former gold mining town that still looks as though it has one foot in the past.  In a nearby community, Rock Creek, I discovered  Rags, Relics and Rutabagas, a curio shop that perfectly embodies the town’s spirit: quirky, creative, and full of character.

Moments like these remind me of the importance of slowing down, stepping away from the busyness of life, and creating space for calm and wonder. Whether it’s a quiet trail, a cozy corner in your favourite café, or simply a few minutes spent in stillness, these small acts of self-care help us reconnect with ourselves.

Where do you go to find your calm? What practices help you reset and restore your balance?

Wishing you these precious moments.

Warmly,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Late last night, I landed in British Columbia for a long-anticipated hiking trip. The air felt different the moment I stepped off the plane: crisp, pine-scented, carrying the promise of mountain trails and open skies. Early this morning, Joe and I laced up our boots and set out to explore the foothills of Kelowna. The trail wound through a patchwork of gold and green, with the first light of day brushing the hillsides in soft amber hues.

Halfway through the climb, we crossed paths with a man who paused just long enough to exchange a few words that lingered long after he continued on his way. He told us that each morning, without fail, he completes a 10-kilometre loop through these very hills. His voice carried the warmth of experience; the kind of calm that comes from knowing exactly what matters most.

The mountains, he explained, remind him of his home country, Zimbabwe. His daily ritual of hiking connects him not only to nature, but also to his faith, and to the priorities that give his life meaning. Now 63 and in semi-retirement, he’s come to understand that the best investment he can possibly make is in his own health.

That simple truth stayed with me. In a world that constantly demands our time and energy, it’s easy to forget that the most valuable return on investment comes not from wealth, possessions, or accolades, but from the strength and vitality that allow us to do the things we love.

There’s something profoundly grounding about meeting a person who has distilled life’s lessons into simple, intentional practice. His daily hike isn’t just exercise; it’s a form of gratitude, a moving meditation, a declaration of commitment to living fully.

As we continued our ascent, I thought about how easy it is to delay joy; to tell ourselves we’ll take better care of our bodies or make more time for what we love someday. But perhaps the lesson from the mountain is this: someday begins with the next step we take.

So, here’s my invitation to you: do more of what brings you life. Invest in your health not as an afterthought, but as a priority. Find your own mountain, whether it’s a hiking trail, a creative pursuit, or a quiet moment of stillness at the start of your day.

At Landing Strong, we’re getting ready to launch our upcoming Virtual Hiking Program, designed to help you take those first steps, literally and figuratively, toward investing in your wellbeing. Now is the perfect time to make sure you have comfortable walking shoes or boots, and to set the intention that your health matters. We’ll be circulating more information soon but remember: the biggest part of preparation lies in the decision that you are worth the effort.

Here’s to meeting your own mountain and discovering who you might become when you reach the summit.

Warmly,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong