This week I had the opportunity to meet some Maasai women living by the plains of the Serengeti who were selling their beaded handiwork.
After the expected amount of haggling, I struck a deal with one of them and purchased a few bracelets. Pleased with the exchange, she spit in her hand and held it out for me to shake.
Naturally I accepted her offer and shook back, knowing it was a mutual sign of agreement and respect.
Knowing the local customs sometimes takes a leap of faith. Like those who are transitioning out of military careers, understanding the norms and nuances of civilian life can come as somewhat of a culture shock.
Allowing yourself patience and grace is an important part of the journey.
Warm thoughts,
Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong