Big ideas, small packages

Big ideas, small packages

by | Nov 1, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Friday Inspiration, Gratitude, joy, Relaxation, Self-Awareness

Big ideas, small packages

Life is about big ideas, but it doesn’t always come in the way we expect it.

I started this growing season full of enthusiasm and ambition. On top of the usual tomatoes, carrots, and beans I thought I’d try my hand at cantaloupe, and watermelon, and retry last year’s failed crop; cucumbers.

I am happy to report that I was able to grow some of each. The unexpected part was their size. Some magical fairy dust was sprinkled over my garden, making everything grow in miniature.

Life can sometimes be like that. We might have big dreams that are delivered to us in small packages. The trick is celebrating and accepting whatever comes our way.

You may have had big dreams about your career and feel that somehow things didn’t quite measure up to your expectations. The skill lies in recognizing the growth and abundance that still lies in your journey.

Sometimes victory comes in small steps. For me, I’ll aim at growing next year’s crop one inch bigger.

 

Warmly,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Building on small successes

Building on small successes

by | Oct 18, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Friday Inspiration, joy, Love

Building on small successes

A few weeks ago we shared news of our Community Connections Fly Fishing which provided a new skill and fun at the water’s edge. The day ended with some equally joyful cranberry picking.

Wanting to share the joy of the day and the specialness of the experience with family, I took them back to the same spot this Thanksgiving weekend. I’m happy to report that in under an hour and with the sun beaming down upon us we were each able to pick a large bowl of cranberries. My cranberries have already been transformed into delicious bottles of jam, the first of which we enjoyed at our Thanksgiving meal.

Although it rained on Saturday soon after, with winds whipping up and the temperature suddenly dropping five degrees, the window of sunshine, companionship, and play was a beautiful way to start the day.

We are all subjected to sudden turns of weather in our lives. Recovery and health involve selectively attending to our successes and systematically building upon them. Going out once for coffee with a friend or group can buoy your spirits, but committing to doing so regularly can help keep you afloat, even adding wind to your sails. Taking one group program might be helpful, but in and of itself it won’t be enough. It’s the gradual and gentle addition of programs over time that creates the momentum necessary for significant growth.

Drop us a line if you’re interested in joining Community Connections this Monday. We’re creating fall wreaths and enjoying hot coffee and sweet treats at Landing Strong.

 

We hope to see you there,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

No fish…that’s ok, we got cranberries

No fish…that’s ok, we got cranberries

by | Sep 25, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Challenge, Community, Friday Inspiration, joy, Wellbeing

No fish…that’s ok, we’ve got cranberries

 

This past Monday was a magical morning as Shawn Pineo from New Scotland Fly Rods led us on a fly-fishing adventure for our Community Connection day.

On the shores of Panuke Lake with the sun beaming down on our shoulders, we tied, cast, reeled, and laughed together.

Not everyone was physically able to participate but that didn’t stop them from sharing fish stories and banter by the water’s edge.

I’d like to report that many fish were caught, but truth be told, the biggest catch of the day was cranberries. We left literally with buckets of them.

PS: Did you know that fly-fishing hip waiters allow one to lie in a field of red cranberries without fear of red stains? This is optimal for a speedy collection.

I left with my heart full and a big smile on my face. The lightness and levity of the morning went a long way to setting the tone for a wonderful week.

Sometimes the best things in life are unexpected. I’m eternally grateful to Shawn for creating such a warm welcoming environment and generously sharing his equipment with us. But I’m ridiculously pleased with the bounty of cranberries which will form the basis of my Thanksgiving cranberry sauce.

I went into the day knowing that fishing wasn’t likely my thing, but I left pleased to have taken part.

Please join us for the next Community Connection group as we take a fall walk on the Manning Nature trails, followed by a coffee outing to Gerrish and Grey. We’ll be collecting natural wilderness treasures for our upcoming wreath-making workshop which will take place two weeks later.

 

Warm thoughts,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Allowing your intentions to shape your world

Allowing your intentions to shape your world

by | Sep 20, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Community, joy

Allowing your intentions to shape your world

During a recent trip to Toronto, I spied this little book library in my brother’s neighborhood.

It caught my eye for a number of reasons. Firstly it’s a free library. I know the creator of this tiny cabinet loves books and sharing good reads. Secondly, it’s not just a book-lending library, it is an actual library. Zoom in to peek closely at the photo and you will see the intricate details inside.

This level of thought and intention filled my heart and kept me smiling the entire way home. It made Toronto feel like a friendly happy place, full of good people and good neighbors.

Is there anything you are doing to send out similar messages of laughter and light to the world around you?

 

Warmly,

 

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Making the time to explore what’s beautiful

Making the time to explore what’s beautiful

by | Aug 16, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Friday Inspiration, joy, Wisdom

Making the time to explore what’s beautiful

Mavillette Beach is one of my favourite places in the province.

At low tide the expansive sand is vast, the water’s edge almost out of sight from the steps that lead down to the beach.

Every day I try to plan a mini-adventure. Something small that connects me with nature and brings me joy. Whether it be a swim, a forest walk, or running my toes through tidal waters as they work their way across the warm sand. These are the simple things that enrich our lives.

Is there somewhere you go to regularly that allows you to appreciate the beauty of our province? What are the senses that you experience there, that refresh your soul? Are you able to get out and enjoy the aspects of summer that are accessible to you?

 

Warm thoughts,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Looking for the good stuff

Looking for the good stuff

by | Jul 12, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Friday Inspiration, Gratitude, joy, Mindfulness

Looking for the good stuff

My house is sagging. Literally.

This last weekend while the roof was being replaced, torrents of rain found their way gleefully down through the ceilings and walls of the century-old house. We returned from the cottage on Sunday night only to realize that our home was far from habitable.

It’s been a slog sorting things out. Luckily the team from System Care is tending to the cleanup, dehumidifying, sealing, and inflating our house like a hot-air balloon.

It is at times like this that life can feel a little bit overwhelming.

I was shopping for groceries last night and purchased some Bok choy to add to an Asian stir-fry I had planned for dinner. My strategy was to overcompensate in nutrition which we lacked in physical comfort this week. Of course, I may have thrown in a couple of pieces of double chocolate fudge cake for dessert.
Here in lies the yin and yang of the universe.

Sitting at the lake house last evening, enjoying the pastel cloud reflections on the still water, I couldn’t possibly have enjoyed my cake more. For at least that moment, all seemed well in the world.

When we have those hard weeks, and things feel like an uphill battle, it’s important to build in small moments of joy. In your journey of recovery please take the time to notice the good stuff. Even if it’s something as small as enjoying a good piece of cake.

Warm thoughts,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong