Leaning in together

Leaning in together

by | Oct 25, 2024 | Anger, Belinda's Thoughts, Challenge, Grief, Media, Remembrance

Leaning in together

It’s been a tough week in Nova Scotia. The news has been hard and sad. How do we respond when difficult things happen to members of our community?

My heart reaches out to the mother who lost her 19 year-old daughter, her extended family, friends and co-workers at Walmart. I am mindful of the impact on first responders who were called to the scene. We also extend our deepest sympathy to the RCMP officers, family members and friends who lost a colleague and loved one. First responders were also called to this troubling scene.

It’s natural to try to try to fill in the blanks, guessing at the details in an effort to understand what happened. It’s human nature.

Instead of judging, I want to lean in with compassion, knowing that extreme actions only come from deep places of hurt. As an organization we want to be sure that we are doing everything possible to provide a network of support for those who might be faltering or injured. If you or anyone you know needs a helping hand, please do not hesitate to reach out. We are only a phone call away. If we all lean in, we can be sure no-one gets left behind. Please know that a community stands behind you.

I invite you to make time to ground yourself in nature this weekend, soaking in the fall colours and beauty that surrounds us. Take a moment to breathe in the fresh fall air. Be liberal with your hugs and generous with understanding.

 

Our hearts united,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Good things come to those who work

Good things come to those who work

by | Oct 11, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Community, Courage, Friday Inspiration, Grief

Good things come to those who wait work.

Recovery can be a slow and arduous process.
‘Will I be ready to get back to work by the end of the month?’ clients might ask hopefully.

I shake my head knowing silently that after a career of service it will likely take more than a month to turn things around.

The good news is, good things do in fact come to those who are willing to put the work in.

We see it in our community. Veterans and first responders who’ve been chipping away at their injuries are indeed emerging as new versions of themselves. Instead of feeling overwhelmed with anxiety at the thought of attending a group program, they strap on their athletic gear, rubber boots, sunhats, and hiking shoes as we climb tree tops, go fly fishing, forage for wild cranberries and complete hikes together.

Rather than trying to protect themselves by staying at home, these wise souls understand that with risk comes reward.

It is only through leaps of faith, breaths of courage and hard work that recovery starts to take shape. Every single one of the people behind the smiling faces you may have seen in recent photos, was likely at one point hesitant to leave the safety of home.

Not only are they engaging, they but they are eagerly asking when the next time is that they can bring their partners and spouses.

The work of recovery is good not just for those who are injured, but also for their families. When we look after ourselves the whole world benefits.

We are excited to be offering four great group programs in the upcoming months:

Community Connection 9-noon October 7th, 21st
Maintaining Health October 17th
Advanced Skills in Trauma Recovery
Thursdays November 7th, 14th, 28th, December 5th, 12th
Mind/Body Health & Recovery
Fridays November 8th, 15th, 22nd, 29th, December 5th

Call (902) 472-2972 or email Julie at info@landingstrong.com
to learn more, or sign up.


We hope to see you soon,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

We have your back

We have your back

by | Feb 16, 2024 | Belinda's Thoughts, Challenge, Community, Compassion, Courage, Grief

This week, the residents of Kansas City struggled to come to terms with the horrific outcome of what was supposed to be a joyous event. One person was killed and more than 20 wounded following a shooting during the Super Bowl parade. This was the 48th mass shooting in the United States since the beginning of the year. That’s more than one a day. What used to be an outlier event has now become alarmingly normal.

While we might get used to hearing about such events on the news, it is never normal for those who are called to respond. Our hearts naturally go to the victims and their families. What is often overlooked is the devastating impact it has on the first responder community. We rush to treat those who are physically wounded, not always recognizing the psychological devastation left behind by these incidents. Often, they are hidden or take time to surface.

Seeing this event, I am reminded of how many Nova Scotians may be living with invisible injuries. We remain committed to ensuring that we have your back; that no-one who is injured is left standing alone.

We are immensely grateful for the work our first responders do.

Warm thoughts,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Remembrance

Remembrance

by | Nov 10, 2023 | Belinda's Thoughts, Community, Courage, Friday's Inspiration, Grief, Recovery

Remembrance

Remembrance Day is upon us.

Scarlet poppies are proudly pinned over our hearts. We find Veterans in perfectly pressed uniforms at the entrances of our grocery stores.  School hallways are adorned with crayon masterpieces on manilla paper, honoring those who’ve served and continue to serve our communities and country.

It’s a time of reflection, appreciation, remembrance.

It’s interesting to hear about the many ways people chose to honour this day.

For some it’s important for them to show up at a local cenotaph with community to pay respects.  For others retreating to a favorite secluded trail or quiet spot in nature is the perfect place to reflect and remember.

However you choose to honour this time, know that we are with you in our thoughts.

Warm thoughts,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Sending love and support to victims of the flood

Sending love and support to victims of the flood

by | Jul 28, 2023 | Challenge, Community, Courage, Grief, Love, Support

Sending love and support to victims of the flood

We join you this afternoon with an acknowledgement of the hardship and loss faced by the people in our community, expressing thanks to the first responders who put themselves at risk assisting those who were trapped by flood waters.

We feel gratitude for those who are safe, and want to express our sympathy and support for those who have endured unimaginable hardship. Our hearts are with you.

In such challenging times, it is important to acknowledge the valiant efforts of the Brooklyn Fire Department, in addition to all other emergency, hydro, and road repair crews who worked around the clock to restore safety and order.

If you were part of this emergency response and are struggling, please feel free to reach out and give us a call. Know that we are here for you.

Warm thoughts,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Have you met Max?

Have you met Max?

by | Jan 9, 2020 | Belinda's Thoughts, Community, Grief, Recovery, Uncategorized

He’s Doug’s dog.  Max may greet you cheerfully when you walk in the door at Landing Strong.  Wagging his fluffy white tail while showing off his fabulous winter sweater.  

Max comes in to work because he hasn’t had an easy time lately.  His lifelong companion Murphy passed away and the adjustment has been hard on him.  Always together, Max suddenly found himself without his best friend.  When I first met Max he was sad and somewhat withdrawn.  Overtime, he’s growing in confidence and is coming out of his bed more often.  The more he interacts, the better he does.

Grief is like that.  Isolating and all encompassing.  It makes it hard to get up and go out…particularly if all we want to do is lie in bed.  The thing is, grief is not meant to be experienced alone.  There’s power and strength in expressing the roar of pain associated with loss.  Pain is meant to be seen and heard…that’s why we cry out.  It’s an invitation for connection…for recovery never happens in isolation.

Extending our thoughts and hearts to each and every one of you who are experiencing the pain of loss.  Know that you are not alone.

Warm wishes,

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong