Small Steps Big Change

Small Steps Big Change

Small Steps Big Change

As we enter the colder months, many of us notice that the journey we’re on feels a bit longer and heavier than expected. If that’s true for you, take heart, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Healing rarely follows a straight line. It asks of us patience, self-compassion, and a willingness to care for ourselves even when motivation feels scarce.

With the holiday season approaching, and winter right behind it, it’s easy to slip into hibernation mode. Snacks, blankets, and Netflix have a way of calling our names this time of year. Although rest is important, too much withdrawal can leave us feeling sluggish or disconnected. This year, instead of settling into the long winter, we invite you to consider stepping into something new.

Four members of our Landing Strong community are currently training to hike Mount Kilimanjaro next March. Their journey is a powerful reminder of what’s possible when we set intentional goals and lean on one another for support. You don’t need to travel across the world to be part of their team. You can join them virtually through our online training program, becoming part of a larger community moving toward health together.

Now is an ideal time to reflect on what matters most for your physical wellbeing. Attached is a goal-setting form you may find helpful as you take the first steps (click here). Give yourself a few quiet moments to consider what you want for your body, your energy, and your health in the months ahead.

Remember, training begins from exactly where you are today.

If you have questions about the virtual training or goal setting, please reach out to Gill Ring, our communications manager, and she can support you at gring@landingstrong.com. 

One small, honest step is enough to start the journey.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Finding Warmth in Community

Finding Warmth in Community

Finding Warmth in Community

Last night as I was leaving the office, I was drawn to a surprising, uplifting sound coming from a nearby tree. Curious, I approached slowly, realizing that the tree was alive with movement and birdsong.  Hundreds, perhaps thousands, of starlings gathered together, their voices blending into a chorus that filled the evening air (listen here).

I stood for a long moment, mesmerized. How did they all know to gather here, in this one spot? Was it the guidance of a single leader, or something deeper—an instinctive wisdom, written into their very DNA? These birds are about to embark on their long journey south, facing the uncertainty and challenge of winter. Yet they do not go alone. They sing together, hang together, train together, and ultimately fly together.

There’s something profoundly reassuring in this idea. As humans, we too face seasons of hardship and transition. While our instincts may tell us to withdraw when life gets difficult, healing requires community. Like those birds, we are stronger when we connect; when we lend our voices to a shared song of support and understanding.

At Landing Strong, we believe that recovery isn’t a solitary flight. It’s something we do together; encouraging, guiding, and lifting one another as we move toward brighter days ahead.

Because sometimes, the surest way to face the winter is side by side.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Stronger Together

Stronger Together

Stronger Together

This week, I am reminded of the importance of community. During our Surviving to Thriving program, my colleague and fellow clinician, Charisma Grace, shared that she has been deeply mindful of her family in Jamaica. While her loved ones thankfully weathered the recent hurricane unscathed, they are profoundly affected by the devastation in their community and country. Even across the ocean here in Canada, Charisma feels the weight of her home country’s experience; a powerful reminder that our sense of belonging and care extends far beyond borders.

In moments like these, we are called to pull together, recognizing that true resilience depends on our ability to operate as a world community, not as isolated nations or individuals. When one community suffers, we all feel the ripple. When one rises, we are all lifted.

This message was beautifully echoed in a newsletter I received this week from Makers Studio in Windsor, Nov Scotia. Their work highlights the strength that grows from creativity, collaboration, and shared purpose; evidence that community begins at home, in the ways we show up for one another each day.

For healthy countries and a healthy planet, we must first build connected communities right where we live. Thank you for being part of ours. Thank you for noticing, asking, and caring about those around you.

Together, we stand strong.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Walking with coyotes

Walking with coyotes

Walking with coyotes

This week, I’m in Debert offering a five-day Veteran’s program. Each morning in the six am darkness, I lace up my boots, sling on my backpack, and head out for a practice hike. One local warned me to watch for coyotes. I laughed it off until the next morning, when the beam of my headlamp caught the fleeting form of a coyote skirting around the side of a building.

For a moment, I wondered if I should stop walking in the mornings. The thought came quickly, followed by another: how often does fear of the unknown stop us from moving forward?

It’s easy to let fear grow large in our imagination. Perhaps there are more coyotes out there. Perhaps they’re waiting just beyond the edge of the light. But courage isn’t the absence of fear, it’s moving forward, even when we feel it. So, I adjusted my pack, imagined an offensive stance, and kept going.

No encounters today. Truth be told, the coyote I saw yesterday looked more afraid of me than I was of it.

Tackling trauma can be a lot like meeting coyotes on a dark road. Our fears, real or imagined, can keep us locked away, isolated and alone. But when we walk together, shining light on what scares us, we find safety in connection and strength in numbers. Sometimes, just stepping forward is enough to remind us: we’re not alone in the dark.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

From Mountain Tops to Coffee Shops

From Mountain Tops to Coffee Shops

From Mountain Tops to Coffee Shops

As I continue my trek out west, I’ve been intentionally carving out time for reflection and relaxation. There’s something deeply restorative about hiking through mountain trails, enjoying magnificent views with nothing connecting me to time except the amount of sunlight left in the day.  It is these moments that allow my thoughts to settle and drift.

Between hikes, I find myself drawn to local coffee shops. Each one tells a story about the community it serves. There’s an authenticity in these spaces; a warmth that comes not just from the coffee, but from the people gathered around it. I’ve come to believe that nothing captures the heart of a place quite like its café culture.

This photo was taken at Deadwood Junction in Greenwood, B.C., a former gold mining town that still looks as though it has one foot in the past.  In a nearby community, Rock Creek, I discovered  Rags, Relics and Rutabagas, a curio shop that perfectly embodies the town’s spirit: quirky, creative, and full of character.

Moments like these remind me of the importance of slowing down, stepping away from the busyness of life, and creating space for calm and wonder. Whether it’s a quiet trail, a cozy corner in your favourite café, or simply a few minutes spent in stillness, these small acts of self-care help us reconnect with ourselves.

Where do you go to find your calm? What practices help you reset and restore your balance?

Wishing you these precious moments.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Meeting a Man on the Mountain

Meeting a Man on the Mountain

Meeting a Man on the Mountain

Late last night, I landed in British Columbia for a long-anticipated hiking trip. The air felt different the moment I stepped off the plane: crisp, pine-scented, carrying the promise of mountain trails and open skies. Early this morning, Joe and I laced up our boots and set out to explore the foothills of Kelowna. The trail wound through a patchwork of gold and green, with the first light of day brushing the hillsides in soft amber hues.

Halfway through the climb, we crossed paths with a man who paused just long enough to exchange a few words that lingered long after he continued on his way. He told us that each morning, without fail, he completes a 10-kilometre loop through these very hills. His voice carried the warmth of experience; the kind of calm that comes from knowing exactly what matters most.

The mountains, he explained, remind him of his home country, Zimbabwe. His daily ritual of hiking connects him not only to nature, but also to his faith, and to the priorities that give his life meaning. Now 63 and in semi-retirement, he’s come to understand that the best investment he can possibly make is in his own health.

That simple truth stayed with me. In a world that constantly demands our time and energy, it’s easy to forget that the most valuable return on investment comes not from wealth, possessions, or accolades, but from the strength and vitality that allow us to do the things we love.

There’s something profoundly grounding about meeting a person who has distilled life’s lessons into simple, intentional practice. His daily hike isn’t just exercise; it’s a form of gratitude, a moving meditation, a declaration of commitment to living fully.

As we continued our ascent, I thought about how easy it is to delay joy; to tell ourselves we’ll take better care of our bodies or make more time for what we love someday. But perhaps the lesson from the mountain is this: someday begins with the next step we take.

So, here’s my invitation to you: do more of what brings you life. Invest in your health not as an afterthought, but as a priority. Find your own mountain, whether it’s a hiking trail, a creative pursuit, or a quiet moment of stillness at the start of your day.

At Landing Strong, we’re getting ready to launch our upcoming Virtual Hiking Program, designed to help you take those first steps, literally and figuratively, toward investing in your wellbeing. Now is the perfect time to make sure you have comfortable walking shoes or boots, and to set the intention that your health matters. We’ll be circulating more information soon but remember: the biggest part of preparation lies in the decision that you are worth the effort.

Here’s to meeting your own mountain and discovering who you might become when you reach the summit.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

A Thanksgiving Message from Landing Strong

A Thanksgiving Message from Landing Strong

A Thanksgiving Message from Landing Strong

As the leaves turn brilliant shades of red and gold, we’re reminded of the beauty that surrounds us here in Nova Scotia: the rugged coastlines, abundant forests, and quiet fields touched by autumn light. This year’s colours seem especially vibrant, a reminder of the richness that exists even in times of challenge.

As we gather in gratitude, our hearts are also with those who are struggling — families displaced by wildfires, and neighbours looking skyward, hoping for the rain that will refill their wells and ease their worries.

We are especially thankful for our firefighters and first responders, working tirelessly to keep people safe and fires at bay.

May this season bring a sense of connection, compassion, and renewed hope. From all of us at Landing Strong, we wish you a peaceful and restorative Thanksgiving.

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

The Healing Power of Music and Connection

The Healing Power of Music and Connection

Pictured: Nevin Coulstring, Landing Strong friend and community member

The Healing Power of Music and Connection

There are moments when words aren’t enough to capture the depth of human experience. In those moments, music often steps in, bridging the gap between what we feel and what we can express. It has a way of reaching into the hidden places of the heart, offering both comfort and connection.

This is something our friend and community member, Nevin Coulstring, understands deeply. Nevin recently composed an original piece of music, playing every instrument himself.

“The music tells the story of the soldier, police, paramedic, firefighter and the trauma they’ve experienced,” he explained. Nevin wanted his music to carry not just the weight of struggle, but also the strength of resilience. As he put it: “The ending is finding the help, to stand strong on your own once more.”

What makes this gift even more powerful is the context. Nevin is currently facing a terminal illness. Yet, rather than turning inward, he chose to reach outward, to share something meaningful with others who may be walking their own difficult journeys. It is a testament to his courage, generosity, and the profound belief that healing happens not in isolation, but through connection.

At Landing Strong, we often talk about the importance of community. Nevin’s music is a beautiful example of how connection can take many forms. Sometimes it’s a conversation, sometimes it’s a shared silence, and sometimes it’s a song that reminds us that we’re not alone. In offering his music, Nevin has created more than just a composition; he’s created a lasting honour, a message of hope, and a bridge of empathy for those who may be struggling.

Thank you, Nevin, for your service, for your kindness, and for reminding us of the power of music to bring people together. Your legacy of connection and resilience will continue to inspire.

We welcome you to listen to Nevin’s piece by visiting our YouTube page here

For community members and friends of Nevin, he is welcoming visitors.  To arrange a visit with Nevin, kindly contact his wife Donna: nevin117@msn.com

 

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

Which Mountain Do You Want to Climb?

Which Mountain Do You Want to Climb?

Which Mountain Do You Want to Climb?

Those of you who know me know that I have a passion for adventure…and climbing mountains. I’ve climbed Mount Kilimanjaro three times, and this year, I’m preparing to climb it for the fourth. But this time, it won’t just be my journey; I want to take four Landing Strong community members with me.

The mountain has taught me many lessons, but perhaps the most important one is this: the summit isn’t the point. The real transformation happens long before you reach the peak. It happens in the training.

Climbing a mountain is not simply about fitness. It’s about shifting how we see ourselves; learning to let go of the limiting beliefs that whisper we’re not strong enough, not resilient enough, not ready.

The first time I prepared for Kilimanjaro, I didn’t actually climb it. My role was to lead the community service portion of the trip. Yet the months of preparation changed me. My husband and daughter summited that year. I remember watching my 12 year old daughter’s strength and determination. After they completed the climb, she told me I was capable, even when I didn’t fully believe it myself. And she was right. Sometimes we need someone else to hold the vision of who we might become until we are ready to see it ourselves.

So I offer you this question: which mountain do you want to climb this year?
Maybe it’s Kilimanjaro. Maybe it’s something closer to home. The climb might be a literal peak or a personal one. What matters is that you choose to begin, and that you’re willing to train; not just your body, but your heart, mind, and spirit.

This March, we will travel to Tanzania. Together we’ll spend a week on safari, a week doing community service, and a week on Mount Kilimanjaro. Our community service project this year is close to my heart: building a girls’ dormitory so that young women can safely pursue their high school education. The training begins soon, and it will require commitment, consistency, and courage.

This journey is led by my husband Joe Seagram, in partnership with King’s Edgehill School and Summits Africa.  It is alcohol-free, smoke-free and cannabis-free (cannabis is not legal in Tanzania). Because we will be traveling with King’s-Edgehill School, we’ll be in the company of incredible high school students.

Here’s how you can join us:

  • If you’re interested in being one of the four Landing Strong community members making the climb, please reach out to us directly at info@landingstrong.com
  • If you’d like to be part of the virtual training program and train alongside us from home, keep an eye on your inbox—we’ll be sending details very soon.

The summit may be a breathtaking moment—but it is not the goal. The goal is to discover what we are capable of along the way.

So I ask you again: which mountain do you want to climb?

Warmly,

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong

The trouble with simple solutions

The trouble with simple solutions

The trouble with simple solutions

Working in the federal penitentiary, I was often faced with situations so complex they felt impossible to solve.

Sitting across from men whose lives had been shaped by violence, trauma, and loss, I sometimes felt overwhelmed by the enormity of their struggles. The stories were messy, and the pathways forward were anything but clear.

Ironically, it was in this environment that I learned one of my greatest lessons: the more difficult a problem, the more fundamental the solution. Not fundamental in the sense of easy, but rather, in terms of the things required. At the core, what people needed was not more rules or restrictions. They needed something many had never experienced before: love, trust, safety, compassion, and connection. Without those, no real healing could take place.

This truth extends far beyond prison walls. In today’s world, we are bombarded with overly simplistic answers to deeply complex problems: violence solves conflict; global warming doesn’t exist; autism can be explained simply by women having taken over-the-counter medication.  These reductionistic black-and-white explanations may feel tidy, but they leave no room space for the depth and nuance that real understanding and solutions require.

There is a danger in simplicity. If we cling to false simplifications, we diminish what makes us human: our ability to reason at a higher level, guided not by fear or blame, but by compassion, values, and respect.

The real solutions, the ones that heal, are never quick fixes. They require courage to sit with discomfort, patience to build trust, and openness to connect. They ask us to embrace complexity rather than run from it. And though it isn’t easy, this is where true change begins….

If you feel you or a loved one may be struggling, please feel free to reach out and contact us or visit the programs section of this website to see what we offer.  

 

Warmly,

 

 

Belinda Seagram, Ph.D., R. Psych.
Executive Director, Landing Strong